I’m still kind of embarrassed, and a little concerned, about how (some) people still don’t seem to know very much about sexual anatomy. And this isn’t limited to morons or idiots or prudes, so please don’t take this to be some kind of judgmental thing on my part. Hell, I’m sure I don’t know everything there is to know, either.
But in this day and age, with Google at our fingertips, it just amazes me that a lot of people still don’t believe women can orgasm from penetration alone, nor do they understand that the clitoris is so much more than that little nub-and-hood dealio tucked away in there. I’m pretty sure I’ve shared something similar here before, but I’m sharing it again. Here – have some information on the internal anatomy of the clitoris.
Secondly, I want to talk about the butt. Now, I’d never presume to tell people what to do with their bodies or what they have to try. If you don’t want to explore anal, that’s okay. But if you’re doing it right, it doesn’t hurt. I mean, not to be gross and TMI, but think about it – most penises aren’t much bigger than the average large-ish turd. And if it hurts every time you take a poo, you should probably get that checked out. If it helps, though, a quick skim of some clinical information can reveal a lot. Like the fact that the sphincter is actually in a continual state of maximum contraction. Meaning that relaxing the sphincter is actually a conscious process. (You use that process when you pass gas or poo)
All I’m saying is, don’t be scared of anal, and the clitoris is a complex and beautiful thing, so educate yourself on the possibilities.